Are you Xenodochial? – The Alphabet Series continues with Letter X

Are you Xenodochial? - The Alphabet Series continues with Letter XXenodochial – friendly to strangers, or user-friendly. What a wonderful word to describe the manner in which we should act toward others, and the way in which the tools and technology we create should be crafted. How’s that for some cocktail party conversation?…”Hey, how xenodochial is your website?”

Riiigghhtt…I’m not so sure that’s a great opening line, but it sure is different! Thanks so much Hajra Khatoon for introducing me to this word:)

Hajra also suggested Xenial, and I truly hope that everyone who drops by my blog finds it to be a Xenial place – friendly and hospitable. As I like to say, the welcome mat is always out:)

Ralph Dopping said he’d never want to be referred to as a Xenon. Now since Xenon is 54 on the Periodic Table, one of the noble gases – tasteless, odorless, and colourless, I’m not sure I get Ralph’s drift. But I do know that the name comes from the Greek word ‘xenos’, meaning stranger. And Ralph…you’re no longer a stranger here:)

Susan Silver dislikes the word Xenophobic (me too!), so offered up Xylopyrography, the act of burning pictures into wood. Susan, Barbara Klein and Erin Feldman suggested Xanadu. Oh my, check out those outfits, hair-dos and roller skates!

Adam Toporek said “My word is X, the universal symbol for the unknown variable. Trying to figure out X in all areas at the heart of business.” And Sharon Gilmour-Glover  added ” why X doesn’t mark the spot anymore”, because the business landscape is changing so rapidly. But X definitely marked the spot when Michael Douglas and Evan Rachel Wood created an “X marks the spot” here.

Sue Snider introduced me to the word Xystarch (I wondered if that was like cornstarch), only to find out that a Xystarch was an Ancient Greek officer in charge of gymnastic exercises. I guess I was a modern-day Xystarch for many years, when I coached world-class and Olympic rhythmic gymnasts.

Xavier, the Saint, was suggested by Jen Holmes Olney, and many institutions of higher learning have adopted that name. And Jayme Soulati introduced me to Xerxes, the ancient King of Persia. It seems that letter X started the names and titles of many leaders, long ago.

And now…a station break, starring Bill Dorman, who said on the W post: “I’m so xcited I didn’t need my x-ray vision to read this xhilarating, x-rated post. I’m certainly no xenophobe when I visit my Canadian buddy’s post, now am I? Will wonders never cease. It will be interesting to see what kind of x words you come up w/ next so I will try to keep my XXX mind out of the gutter to make a contribution. How about, how were your results? They were so good, they were bigger than large. How large? XXL, how’s that for big? Great series ma’am; now I’m xhausted…………..

And to sweeten the pot, I add Carolyn Nicander Mohr‘s word, Xylitol, a sugar substitute .

Lori Gosselin suggested Xanthous, which refers to the colour yellow: a colour we see in Lori’s branding over at Life for Instance.

And has been the habit, I’ll end with the Queen of Alliteration, Vidya Sury‘s submission:

“No xcuse, no xplanation.
I might need Xerox to produce more words starting with X.
Even I am xhausted
Should I xtol the virtues of xerxes?
or the xciting xodus?
xplore xpedia or the x-files?
xtreme measures?
recall biology with xiphiidae, xylem, xanthum?
go to xanadu with xcalibur?
xcessively xtreme!
xtra xpectations…
xonerate me. I ‘xit before i’m xpelled  the great xodus
my xylograph rests.
Peace.”

And may I say, it’s been my pleasure to be your Xenagogue, or tour guide, throughout this Alphabet Series. We’ve only two more letters to go, and then it will be time to do some type of wrap-up of the Alphabet. I’m not sure how we’ll do it, but it would be great to get all of you who read this to suggest your favourite word(s) from the series. I welcome any and all suggestions on how we might make it happen. After all, there are 26 letters and I-don’t-know-how-many-words (except I know there are a lot!) to choose from.

Be sure to submit your Letter Y words in your comments below.

I’m “X”iting stage left from letter X.

 



  • http://twitter.com/bdorman264 Bill Dorman

    Yummy, much more X references than you can even yell at. I was surprised how many it yielded. 

    Why does that guy always go to the next letter, you would think he would be more focused on the now, huh?

    Now this is winding down, what do you have up your sleeve for an encore? The Chinese alphabet? 

    Going forward I will duplicate my ‘yield’ word as in what is your yield, your return on investment?

    I did not go to the Keys yet, if you are around this afternoon we can Skype. 

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Yay! I’d love to Skype this afternoon. Email or DM me a time (I’m EST) and I’ll be there with bells on @twitter-34985693:disqus (or in my case, snowshoes:) Yummy and Yield will be included in the next Alphabet post.

      I’ve been working on figuring out how to do an Alphabet round-up post, with favourite words from readers. I just don’t know, with 26 letters and so-man-words in each letter, how to get people to “vote” or recommend their faves. It’s also been suggested that I produce the Alphabet series in some type of ebook, maybe with some additional comments or perspective added. Any and all suggestions are welcome! Cheers! Kaarina

  • http://soulati.com/blog Soulati

    How absolutely, astonishingly impressive and no XXX to speak of, unless @twitter-34985693:disqus slipped that in. 

    These posts have taken you hours; will YOU collect them in some sort of memorable book? The best why is You; honor thyself for without You, we could not be Your community. 

    Heh…a stretch, but truth.

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Thanks so much @soulati:disqus , for always providing both the inspiration and the kick in the butt for me to go to places I might not think of on my own. Lovely comment: I’m grateful. And I do believe an Alphabet ebook must now get into the works. Cheers! Kaarina

  • http://newenglandmultimedia.com/ Michelle Quillin

    This one is impressive, Kaarina! Coming up with a list of business-related words that begin with the letter X is tough. I notice Adam just went with X, which makes this exercise (x-ercise?) much easier: 

    X as a variable, X marks the spot, X out bad habits, X things off your to-do list (wait, you have a blog post about that — it’s a WILL-do list right?)…now I’m rolling.

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       You are indeed on a roll @michellequillin:disqus , and you’re right about my WILL-do list:) I’m now pondering how/if to make this series into an ebook, as well as a round-up post. Any suggestions? Cheers! Kaarina

      • http://newenglandmultimedia.com/ Michelle Quillin

        Sure! If you have the time, go through all of the posts and cull the best ones that relate to a specific theme. Maybe two themes and two eBooks, each in line with what your services are as a coach/consultant. 

        Thinking along the lines of “The Alphabet Series: Top Tips for Creating a Business That ______” (you’d have to fill in that blank — I’m not sure!) and “The Alphabet Series: Wisdom for Creating a Life That Matters” (or similar).

        A chapter per letter, with your commentary, peppered with the wisdom your community has shared. Be sure to write a forward about your heart for helping others around those two topics, and a preface: “How the Alphabet Series Was Born.”

        How’s that? :)

        • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

           I.love.you. That is so very helpful @michellequillin:disqus : you’ve inspired me, and I’ll be putting those ideas into reality somehow. You’ve given me tons of food for thought and great suggestions: thank you!

  • http://newenglandmultimedia.com/ Michelle Quillin

    And I’m with Jayme on the YOU for the letter Y!

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Aw shucks :)

  • http://www.late-bloomers.net Barbara Klein

    I did not know there existed more than maybe two or three words beginning with an “x”!

    The letter “Y” should be far easier, but no, @soulati:disqus surged forward with “YOU” and of course I wholeheartedly agree with her: where would we be without YOU?Too bad, Bill came in with “YUMMY” before I had a chance, I could have flung some foodie stuff around.  

    Yucatan – anyone game for it? Must be a nice place to visit.

    Yellow: it used to be my favourite colour but very difficult to combine in terms of wearing cloths. 

    But you know what: I will settle for yucatan, which I first encountered in Japan, a piece of clothing similar to a bathrobe, made of light cotton which is offered to you courtesy of the house, well,  you are not meant to carry it with you when leaving ….

    In terms of business I will resort to “YOU” again,  you are the soul and heart of your own business and make sure to live up to it.

    One more letter to go … 

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Thanks @BarbaraKlein:disqus : yucatan, yellow and you will be included. And, of course, yummy! It’s always great to see you here: I have visions of the yummy time you will have this fall in Italy. Do I hear Italian bells calling? Cheers! Kaarina

      • http://www.late-bloomers.net Barbara Klein

        Faintly from very far away the bells are starting to call … what a lovely picture, Kaarina! I will send you the link of the place we are renting this year, early autumn with hot days still but cooler temperatures at night, the crowds will be gone and silence will reign again together with the cicadas, and the food – my stomach starts to grumble and it is only 9 am!

  • http://www.thejackb.com/ The JackB

    Time has taught me to beware the:

    xanthippe- ill-tempered woman

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       You are a wise man @TheJackB:disqus (I was going to write X-man, like the superhero…there, I did!) Cheers! Kaarina

  • socialmediadds

    To borrow a part of Mary Poppin’s fun…this post has been Xpeallidocious!!….As always, this word nerd can depend on your alphabet series posts to teach me a word or two!   And, may I say, that as a dentist, I happen to love @CarolynNicanderMohr:disqus ‘s suggestion of Xylitol (did you know that studies indicate that Xylitol can actually help to prevent decay?….)  This has been exhilarating and informative.  I yearn for the simplicity of a time when yeomanry existed without yabbering on and on about it.  I always look for the silver lining in all things but today, I look for the yttrium lining and exhibit a yen for YOUR posts!  

    xoxox
    Claudia

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Yay for the Y’s @socialmediadds:disqus ! And it’s so great to see you here. I’ve been missing you, and sorry I had to bail on our planned Skype call. But we WILL make that happen.

      I like the Mary Poppins reference, and wasn’t aware of the benefits of xylitol until Carolyn, and now you, mentioned them. I’m always wary of artificial sweeteners, as some have some not-so-nice aspects to them. Hope all is well. Cheers! Kaarina

  • http://twitter.com/rdopping Ralph Dopping

    Yikes your series is almost done. Like many I don’t want to think of yesterday but more of tomorrow so I look forward to the yield of your future yearning. 

    I have to stop yammering and before I make you yawn. I would rather share a yill and some yuks in your yard…..;-)

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Yuk Yuk Yuk…sharing those Yuks from a distance @twitter-229922134:disqus , and appreciate the Y words for the next post. It was great to meet you in Toronto: fun time. Cheers! Kaarina

  • http://markharai.com Mark Harai

    Life is a just a game; play it well – play it to the Xtreme… This is the secret to maintaining a Youthful perspective in life : )

    YOU are truly a gifted soul Kaarina : )

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       A nice combination of X and Y @markharai:disqus , and as always, you make my day with your kind words. Cheers! Kaarina

  • http://hajrakvetches.com Hajra

    Really, we managed it just fine without the XXXX rated stuff going around. Aren’t we such a blessed group of nice readers! ;)

    And yes, that word is a bad way to start a conversation… people will never take you seriously! ;)

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Yes! We made it through without any of that XXX rated stuff: Yay! We are indeed a “blessed group of nice readers” @hajrak:disqus . Cheers! Kaarina

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  • http://www.vidyasury.com/ Vidya Sury

    Yodeling on my Y-axis
    and twisting the Y-chromosome with my yada yada yada…

    I can’t say Yay! Yoo hoo! Yippee! or Yahoo!
    to the letter Y.

    I am a yaketty yakking Yajur Vedi,
    not Yankee-Doodle who yodeled on a yacht’s yawl on Yangtze river toward Yemen, Yugoslavia,
    Yukon, Yosemite or Yucatan. 

    Yonder Yokel Youth full of
    yeast yielded to the yuletide spirit in the days of yore, throwing yorkers but have no yardstick for your yelp, yowl and yarn yet and
    no yen from the yuan dynasty for years.

    Yahweh, Yehudi, Yin
    Yang or Yama on a yak?

     

    I yell Yes, yup and
    yearn for Yves’ ylang ylang, yoga, yummy yogurt and yam and a young yellow yezdi

     

    You yawned?
    Yikes!

     

    An actual Y word
    is the WordPress SEO plug in called “Yoast”.

     

    (Yama = Hindu god
    of death

    Yajur veda = one
    of the four vedas)

     Yezdi = a brand of motorbikes. Truth. I have a
    photo of me on one)

     

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

       Thanks so much @vidyasury:disqus . I held off on my “Y” post, hoping you might chime in…and you never disappoint:) I’ll be Y-ing it up and posting soon…probably tomorrow with letter Y. Thanks! Kaarina

  • http://www.wonderoftech.com Carolyn Nicander Mohr

    Hi Kaarina, I was in Finland when this was published, sorry I missed the party, but great job with X!

    If it’s not too late, I would like to contribute Yellow to the Y list. Yellow is such a happy color that it can’t help but make me smile. I’m sitting in a yellow room as I write this!

    • http://twitter.com/KDillabough Kaarina Dillabough

      OMG you were in my homeland, Finland? Whereabouts? Interestingly enough, it’s one of the countries I’ve not yet visited, if you can imagine, what with all the travel I did with sports teams. It is on my list of priorities:) And Yellow it is! Post is not yet completed, so your timing’s perfect. Cheers! Kaarina

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